How do you think about sex?

There is an old saying that ‘food and sex are sex’, and the important position of sex in life is self-evident. From Maslow’s theory of hierarchy of needs, ‘sex’ is located at the most basic level of physiological needs, which is no different from food, water, and air. It is the lowest level, but also the most basic need. When physiological needs are difficult to meet, people will fall into a situation where they ignore and just want to live, and their thinking ability and moral concepts will become obviously fragile. Just imagine, if you are extremely hungry, will you snatch food by any means? Similarly, when a human physiological needs cannot be met for a long time, TA will also use extreme means to try to meet their needs. ‘Love’ is located at the third level - social needs, also known as the need for emotion and belonging. We need care, we need friendship, we try to prove our sociality by proving some affiliation. It is worth noting that scholars list love and sexual intimacy as the third level of need, which is something worth thinking about. In other words, there is an essential difference between the sex here and the first level of sex. I prefer to call the first level of sex ‘sex and reproduction’, while the third level of sex involves complex psychological motivations and social activities, which we temporarily call ‘sex’. Love and sex are like black and white, but not just black and white, there is a gray area between them. Sometimes we just stand on the point of love, love and feel the best things in the world, but what regrets do we have? Sometimes we just stand on the point of sex and enjoy the joy of sex, which is understandable. Sometimes, if we can stand between love and sex, I love him, he loves me, and we have sex together, everything will be beautiful. Deep inside you, how do you view sex? What kind of fantasy do you have? If you want to know, come and test it.