Life is a series of choices, and each choice affects our future and happiness. However, many times when we make choices, we do not have enough knowledge and experience to support us, but make decisions in a state of uncertainty and blindness. This leads to three paradoxes in life choices, leaving us confused and helpless. The three paradoxes are: 1. Professional Paradox: At the age of 18, I was a...

Do you often work hard to make more money? Do you think money is the measure of success? Do you think you can live a happier life with more money? If your answer is yes, then you may need to rethink your relationship with money and happiness. The paradox of money and happiness In our society, many people use money as a motivation and goal to pursue success. They believe that as long as they have...

Have you ever felt like you were flustered and overwhelmed when faced with an important decision? Do you have such a regret, when you miss a rare opportunity, you will feel regretful and unable to let go? Have you ever had the confusion that when you pursue a big dream, you feel powerless and unable to achieve it? If you suffer from these problems, you may be an ambiguity avoider. What does it me...

We face a variety of choices every day, from what to eat for breakfast, to what movie to watch at night, to major life decisions like changing jobs or getting married. Choices are part of our lives and reflect our personalities and values. We often think that having more choices makes us happier because we can find what works best for us based on our preferences and needs. However, do we really fe...