If you want to say what security is, perhaps no one can say it. We can probably say that my boyfriend going to nightclubs makes me very insecure, and my girlfriend hanging out with other members of the opposite sex makes me very insecure. But if you ask carefully about what insecurity is, you may only be able to ask about emotions such as ‘I’m afraid of being abandoned’ and ‘I feel very sad.’ But there is no way to describe in detail what security is.
In fact, the emergence of a sense of security is a product of evolution. When we are born, we are fragile children with no resistance to external threats. Therefore, when we feel afraid, we Will cry. But have you ever wondered why we cry? Because our crying can attract the attention of caregivers, allowing them to rush to protect us and solve the crisis we face.
When we cry, it is actually when we feel insecure. Through crying, we seek caregivers to protect us and make us feel at ease. When we feel at ease, we can gain the feeling of being protected, taken care of, and relieved of threats. This feeling is the so-called sense of security.
So do you feel safe? You can tell by taking a picture.
