Test who you and will have a spiritual understanding

Some of my friends are rich in knowledge, some have superb personalities, and some have ‘good character and academic performance’ like model students. Unfortunately, the only shortcomings are lacking in beauty, they all lack a sense of humor and cannot become lively. You always feel that there is an aperture that has not been opened on him, so you can’t suddenly realize it. When talking to him, it is not like playing basketball, when you go back and forth, and when you respond to each other, it is not like snowballing, making an interesting topic bigger and bigger. Who do you have a spiritual understanding with? Let’s take a look.