When a relationship ends: A true portrayal of the heartbreak of MBTI INFP (Mediator)

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Why does the Mediator (INFP) care so much about love?

It is no easy task to lose a relationship that once made us feel love. The breakdown of emotions not only brings spiritual trauma, but may also affect our physical and mental health. Although heartbreak is not fatal, pain is real.

Only when you truly care about someone, will you bring deep sorrow. Psychology tells us that the grief of a broken heart is actually a natural reaction to 'important loss'. Although the stage of sadness is different for everyone, common processes include denial, anger, sadness, acceptance and other links, but everyone has different ways of dealing with emotions and length of time.

Characteristics of MBTI Mediator (INFP) in Emotional Breakdown

Through a large number of psychological research, it was found that the mediator (INFP) personality types in MBTI often suffer greater emotional impact when facing breakups. Here are some typical emotional reactions:

When mediators encounter emotional rejection, they tend to accept reality quickly rather than fight back or try to redeem.
They are more likely to fall into sorrow than anger. Unlike anger that brings energy, sadness often makes people feel powerless and has a more sluggish mood.
They have a strong fear of rejection, which may hinder them from letting go of their already ineffective relationships as soon as possible.
Many mediators will feel sympathy for their partner who has betrayed them and are even willing to try to forgive them.
They are unlikely to be the ones who take the initiative to end a relationship.
Past breakups often caught mediators off guard and left them deeply distressed.
Heartbreakingly, mediators tend to blame themselves for breaking up too much.

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Why is the emotional pain of mediators more difficult to heal?

Mediators are naturally sensitive and compassionate, which makes them more susceptible to injury in their relationships. Faced with a broken heart, they often do not choose to fight back fiercely, but fall into sadness and self-blame. This state can easily make people feel helpless and even difficult to get out of the haze quickly.

At the same time, the mediator's high tolerance and goodness in forgiveness are virtues, but they may also take too much responsibility, repeatedly question their shortcomings in their relationships, and fall into the negative thinking of 'it's all their own faults.'

Moreover, mediators often have expectations for the end of the relationship and try to repair the broken relationship, but reality often does not come true, and failed efforts bring deeper disappointment and pain.

How to help mediators get out of the haze of broken love?

1. Understand that “this pain will eventually pass”

Although the pain of breaking up love is profound, time will dilute most of the pain. Don't rush to force yourself to 'let go' as soon as possible, everyone has a different pace of healing. Maintaining hope for the future, especially for mediators, is an important force to get out of the trough.

It is very critical to seeking to talk and support. Communicating with friends, family and even professionals can help mediators break out of negative thinking and gain emotional understanding and resonance.

2. Rest moderately and maintain appropriate activities

Proper self-comfort is necessary, such as watching your favorite movies, eating some favorite desserts, and even allowing yourself to sleep for a while. But don't indulge in these comforting behaviors, as excessive indulgence may aggravate depression.

Gradually planning some daily activities, such as exercise, reading, interests and hobbies, and maintaining the rhythm of life can help mediators regain their sense of balance in life.

3. Write a diary and clarify emotions and responsibilities

Although many people are not interested in writing a diary, for mediators, writing is an effective tool for self-talk. It is recommended to try the following methods:

Write down your thoughts on the breakup on the left side of the diary, such as 'It's all my fault.'
Analyze the authenticity of these ideas on the right and maintain an objective and inquiry mentality.

This approach can help mediators identify and correct ideas of excessive self-blame and gradually restore self-acceptance.

After heartbreak, welcoming a new completeness

Losing emotions is one of the norms of life. Although pain is inevitable, happiness and growth also exist. The gentleness and tenacity of the mediator will help them reborn from the pain and welcome a better self and future love.

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