Life is a series of choices, and each choice affects our future and happiness. However, many times when we make choices, we do not have enough knowledge and experience to support us, but make decisions in a state of uncertainty and blindness. This leads to three paradoxes in life choices, leaving us confused and helpless. The three paradoxes are:
1. Professional Paradox: At the age of 18, I was a...
Have you ever been in a situation where your partner, relative, friend, or co-worker deliberately distorted the facts to make you think that everything was your fault, or even doubt your memory, perception, or sanity? If so, you may have fallen victim to a form of psychological manipulation known as gaslighting.
What is the gaslighting effect?
The gaslighting effect refers to the emotional abuse...
Have you ever encountered such a situation, when you are taking the elevator, suddenly the elevator stops and the door does not open, you feel very scared, your heart beats faster, your breathing becomes difficult, and you want to escape, but there is nothing you can do? If you feel this way, you may be suffering from a psychological disorder called claustrophobia. So, what is claustrophobia? Why ...
Personality is the embodiment of an individual's inner behavioral tendencies. It is unique, holistic, structural and stable, and provides a unified internal explanation for external behavioral patterns. Since Hippocrates proposed the 'Four Liquids Theory' two thousand years ago, human research on 'personality psychology' has never stopped. To this day, various schools of thought are competing for ...
Are you on the annual popularity ranking of MBTI’s 16 personality types? The top 10 most popular MBTI personality types are revealed. People with these traits are the most popular!
Free MBTI test methods and the latest questions in the Chinese version
Through the MBTI test, we can better understand our own personality characteristics, such as extroversion, introversion, intuition, thinking, emot...
In modern society, parents may face some unexpected challenges, one of which is the early introduction of sexual activity to their underage daughters. As a parent, how you respond calmly, provide support, and take appropriate measures is not only related to your children's future development, but also their mental health and safety. So, what should parents do when they discover this situation? Thi...
What is Panic Disorder? How to self-test?
Panic disorder is a common psychological disorder characterized by the sudden onset of intense fear and discomfort, accompanied by a variety of physical and psychological symptoms, such as palpitations, chest tightness, difficulty breathing, dizziness, nausea, and loss of reality. . Panic attacks usually last from a few minutes to half an hour, and the fr...
How to successfully land your first job with no work experience? This article shares practical job search skills, including SWOT analysis, self-assessment methods, and how to replace part-time work experience with club experience to help college students improve their employment competitiveness.
'What should I do? I'll graduate in a few months and I don't know what I'm going to do in the future....
The human brain is a very complex and powerful organ that can process various information, perform logical reasoning, create imagination, express emotions, control behavior, and more. However, the human brain also has some defects and weaknesses, which can affect our thinking and decision-making, causing us to make some irrational or even stupid choices. These flaws and weaknesses are like the 'si...
Explore the concept of emotional independence and how to improve your emotional management skills. Learn the techniques to achieve self-control and healthy dependence through emotional independence, helping you control your emotions and improve your mental health.
Regain control of emotions and say goodbye to dependence
Have you ever felt like you were being manipulated emotionally by someone e...