Understand the characteristics, causes and harms of flattering personality. Test whether you have a pleasing personality and learn effective ways to get rid of the dilemma of 'pleasing others'. Learn to reject, establish boundaries, improve self-confidence, re-control your life, and live your true self. In life, do you always habitually suppress your own needs and prioritize others' feelings? Are ...
Understand the four major fears and typical manifestations of pleasing personality, test whether you suffer from 'good person disease', and obtain practical self-help guides. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, reject others, improve self-care, gradually get rid of the flattering personality, and live a more authentic and happy life. Do you often feel that you are tired of living? I can't help sa...
As a typical INFP personality type (mediator type) in the MBTI type 16 personality , you may be born with strong empathy, not only sensitively perceive your own emotions, but also delicately experience the joys, sorrows and sorrows of others. When a friend sends an invitation you don't want to accept, the other person's disappointment appears in your mind; when you want to express your true views,...
Have you ever experienced such a moment: originally planned a whole day of arrangement, but because of someone else's request, he subconsciously said 'yes', and later regretted why he didn't refuse? As a typical INTP personality type (logical scholar type), you may think you are independent, rational, and do not compromise easily, but you frequently fall into the trap of 'pleasing others' at criti...
Have you ever had such a scene: a day was already arranged, but when a friend sent a request, he nodded unconsciously to agree? You know that you actually need time to be alone and recharge, but before the thought of rejection was expressed, the guilt in your heart surged up first. If you are an ISFJ personality type (Guardian type) in the MBTI 16 personality, this situation may be accustomed to y...
Do you often nod and agree involuntarily at the request of others, even if your time has already been occupied by work, family and friends? For example: 'Can you help me see this proposal? You have always had a big picture view.' You obviously have a lot of tasks that you haven't completed, but because the other party seems anxious, you subconsciously say, 'Of course.' You even start to adjust you...
Imagine a situation like this: just after get off work, you turn on your phone, and the group chat has begun to discuss your travel plans for next summer. 'Last year was really great!' 'The itinerary you arranged was so perfect!' 'Looking forward to your planning this time!' You felt the pressure getting stronger and stronger while browsing the news. Although you are exhausted and the tasks are pi...
You just promised to help your friend prepare an event plan for a party, even though you were so busy that you almost didn't even have time to take a breath. You have been working on several extra shifts this week, finished a project for your colleagues, and took time to help your family handle some trivial matters. Now sitting on the sofa, your phone shocked and you received another message 'Can ...
Have you ever had this experience: standing in front of the coffee counter, I wanted to order a familiar latte, but the clerk enthusiastically recommended her favorite seasonal limited drink. You hesitated for a moment, but still ordered that complicated and unfamiliar cup of coffee. Sitting by the window and looking at the unsatisfactory drink, you thought to yourself: Why can’t you just say “No,...
A common scenario: After a whole week of fatigue, you finally have your own quiet time, and when you were about to relax, your phone rang. A friend sent a message, his tone was calm but he had an emotional storm. You were exhausted physically and mentally, but you still replied, 'I can come to you' - you know that you actually need more is to be alone and recover. If you are of the INFJ personalit...