Different ways to express 'I love you': The language of love from the MBTI personality type

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In intimate relationships, some people do not hide their love, and they are their instincts of love that they speak sweetly, intimately, and take care of each other in every possible way; while others express it implicitly and even imprecisely. They are not unloved, they are just more restrained and their expressions are more secretive.

Everyone expresses love differently, which is not only influenced by the background of growth, culture and environment, but also closely related to our Myers-Briggs personality type (MBTI) .

Understanding this difference is the key to building a healthy and intimate relationship. This article will analyze how each personality type expresses love and how you want to be loved from the perspective of MBTI type sixteen personality , so as to better understand yourself and the important people around you.

What kind of 'expressor of love' are you? A preliminary study on the language of MBTI and love

MBTI personality type theory is one of the most widely used personality evaluation models in the world. It divides personality into 16 types, each of which shows a unique style when expressing emotions and dealing with relationships. Click to enter the official free MBTI personality test of PsycTest Quiz to learn about your personality types and emotional traits.

In our research and data survey, we summarized the seven most common ways of expressing love. Behind these 'languages of love' are the deep logic of MBTI's personality.

Related free psychological test recommendations: ' Love Language Test '

Seven common ways to express 'I love you'

1. Thoughtful actions: Doing things for you is the simplest way I love you

Some people with personality types believe that love is not spoken, but “do”. When they silently help you complete trivial matters, solve your problems, and do not seek rewards, but only to relieve your pressure, that is the proof of their sincere expression.

2. Money investment and priority: Economic preference is also a manifestation of deep affection

Some personality types will reflect “love” as a priority allocation of resources , such as spending money on gifts for you and providing financial support when pursuing your dreams. This is not material, but a way of expression of 'I am willing to bear it for you'.

3. Identity and affirmation: being seen and appreciated is the core need of love

For some people, the 'I love you' that touches them the most is not romantic behavior, but daily recognition and praise. 'I see your efforts' and 'I admire you very much' , these words are more powerful than flowers.

4. Companionship and concentration: Your time is my greatest gift

Many personality types care about companionship and investment attention. As long as you are willing to put down your phone, listen carefully to him, have a meal together, and spend a period of time without being disturbed, they will feel loved and valued.

5. Physical contact: physical intimacy is the most direct emotional communication of certain personalities

For some people, physical contact is an extremely important way of expression. A hug, a whisper, holding hands, or even sitting close to each other are the languages they love.

6. Emotional support: True love is the psychological level of 'understanding you'

Some personality types care a lot about emotional resonance and support. If you can listen to their mood swings and give them space to express their feelings, you are entering the softest part of their hearts.

7. Thinking communication: Brain interaction is also an expression of love

There is another type of people who regard 'ideological resonance' as an important symbol of love. They hope to create sparks in their spirit and thoughts, and talk about ideals, philosophy, and life are important forms of their spiritual intimacy.

How do MBTI's four major personalities express love?

MBTI divides 16 personalities into four major ' role groups ': Analysts , Diplomats , Sentinels and Explorers . Let’s take a look at how different expressions of different groups of personality are different.

Analyst: Brain stimulation is the bond that connects the heart

Including: INTJ, INTP, ENTJ, ENTP

The group of 'analysts' who are highly rational and logically driven are more conservative in expressing emotions, do not like 'floating' romantic rituals, and are not used to expressing emotions with body or gifts.

What they care most about is thinking exchange and spiritual resonance . If you can inspire their thinking in conversation, discuss complex topics with them, and give them logical recognition, you have begun to get closer to their inner world.

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Diplomat: Love is to express, not to hide

Including: INFJ, INFP, ENFJ, ENFP

The empathetic and emotionally rich personality type of 'diplomacy' expresses emotions very directly, attaches importance to connection, desires to be understood, and is willing to let the other party know 'I love you' in various ways.

They tend to use emotional support , physical contact , high-frequency recognition and other methods to convey their emotions, and are also willing to listen and support the other's psychological needs.

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Guardian: The language of love is responsibility and dedication

Including: ISTJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, ESFJ

This group is pragmatic and reliable, not very good at expressing romantic emotions, but they are good at proving everything with actions.

They often express their emotions through considerate practical actions , long-term investment , and reasonable arrangement of resources . They like to be needed and trusted, and they also hope that their partners can see their efforts and give positive feedback.

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Explorer: Love is the experience of the present, the moment of heart-warming

Including: ISTP, ISFP, ESTP, ESFP

This type of person is naturally enthusiastic and focuses on sensory experience. He likes to express his love through physical contact , fancy companionship , surprises and adventures .

Although they may not necessarily express their emotions in words, they can convey their feelings through actual behaviors, such as arranging a trip that can go on and sending a special small object.

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How do you express “I love you”?

Different MBTI personality types will have different expression styles of love.

Which type are you? Do you prefer action? speech? Or quiet company? I hope others can express their love to you? These cognitions not only help you understand yourself better, but also make your intimate relationship more harmonious.

Want to know your MBTI type and emotional style? Take a free MBTI test now to see which language you belong to.

If you want to further understand the deep characteristics of each personality in love, growth, communication, etc., we especially recommend reading MBTI Advanced Personality Files , which will provide you with more accurate and systematic personalized analysis content to help you understand yourself and your intimate relationship more deeply.

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