Test your self-performance

As we all know, everyone should know that everyone has their own advantages and advantages. However, some people are good at expressing themselves, some are not good at expressing themselves, some like to highlight themselves, and some like to hide themselves, so what are the self-expression? In work, you must always strictly demand yourself, earnestly and promptly complete every task assigned by the leader, resolutely obey the leader’s instructions, and humbly learn from colleagues, and constantly improve the shortcomings in your work. Be able to adapt to new environments quickly, learn new knowledge, and grasp new skills. I maintained a good team spirit at work, was able to coordinate and communicate well, cooperated with colleagues in department to implement and complete the company’s work, and enthusiastically helped other colleagues and got along harmoniously with colleagues. Be able to feel and appreciate the beauty in life, nature, art and science, and have a healthy aesthetic interest. Self-expression: In terms of ideological cultivation, you have good moral cultivation, a firm political direction, and are willing to help others; actively participate in social practice activities to increase social experience. Self-expression motivation refers to the individual’s intention to show his image in front of others. In daily life, most people pay attention to their own words and deeds in order to get the positive evaluation of others. From another perspective, one’s reaction to another is also based on his impression of another’s personality, ability, motivation and other characteristics. Too self-self usually comes from the sense of self-protection generated by frustration in the relationship, especially in the relationship with parents in childhood. It may be because the father or mother is unable to respond to their reasonable needs in a timely manner and cannot understand their reasonable demands, or it may be because the process of weaning, bed separation and kindergarten is relatively simple and rough and feels frustrated. If you don’t sort it out carefully, you may not even remember it. After sorting it out clearly, you will find that the self is a mentality formed based on the true love for yourself. Its essence is to love yourself. We don’t have to deny it, but we must accept and recognize it, because as long as it is true love, no matter who you love, it is always worthy of recognition. The prerequisite for changing oneself is to accept oneself, especially the so-called ‘most imperfect’ part of oneself, and firmly believe that only one has a unique self, no good or bad self, no beautiful or ugly self, can one talk about how to change oneself. So no matter how self-self you are, please accept yourself without any conditions, fully accept yourself (note that it is not downward addiction and indulgence, nor upward pride and worship, but equal acceptance and understanding), and live peacefully in your own truth. The main thing to change is to constantly ignore the narcissistic dimension, that is, don’t pay too much attention to “Is the world as I wish?”, it really doesn’t matter; at the same time, it constantly expands the relationship dimension, that is, paying attention to “Is my relationship with the world good?” is really important. There are differences in self-centering. At the highest level, this person will think that among the crowd, he is the only one who is a saint and great man, others are fools, conceited and narcissistic, and his words and deeds are completely ignored by others, and will be considered an alternative person by others. When such a person realizes that others are like himself, they are also human, and have wisdom and thoughts, he takes the first step to overcome self-centering. At a slightly lower level, this person assumes that what he thinks is right, and that his thinking is wrong with his own different ideas. Therefore, such people will not face their mistakes when studying and working, nor will they learn from others humbly, so it will be difficult for them to make progress and have a ceiling in their studies and careers. When he realizes that his ideas are wrong, dares to face his ignorance and accepts his weakness, he takes the second step to overcome his self-centeredness. The degree is reduced a little more. He is a person who only cares about maximizing his own convenience in life and completely ignores whether it is hindering others. He will be hated and indifferent by others. When he is willing to consider others on the basis of sacrificing part of his own convenience, he takes the third step to overcome self-centering. People who are self-centered will naturally like to look down on others based on their own strengths. However, according to the projection effect of psychology, he will think that others look down on him, so he feels lonely. When he learns to appreciate other people’s strengths, be optimistic about others, and seriously reflect on his own shortcomings; at this time, he overcomes part of his own self. Self-centered people may not recognize their own self at all, but instead feel that they are thinking about others. Why? Because he is treating ‘imposing his own ideas on others’ as ’thinking on others’, this consciousness is deeply rooted in his subconscious, but he cannot feel it at all. When he can realize this and fight his subconscious mind, he will cause less trouble to others. A self-centered person will think that the purpose of caring for others is to make himself live more comfortable. He will not care about and sympathize with others, so he does not have a sense of integration, loyalty, and responsibility in the group. He thinks he lives only for himself. When he can feel the warmth of being integrated into the collective and willing to take responsibility for others, he has completely evolved into a person who overcomes himself. While integrating into the collective, he uses his own wisdom to face the complex hearts and coordinate interpersonal relationships. In order to test whether you can express yourself just right, understand your self-expression based on the following 20 questions.