A person’s popularity often depends on a variety of factors. On the one hand, personal character, behavior, communication skills, etc. will affect popularity. For example, traits such as talkativeness, humor, enthusiasm, and sincerity usually make people more likely to be welcomed and accepted by others. On the other hand, personal social background, job position, network resources, etc. will also affect popularity. For example, a person who has a wide network of contacts in social situations can usually get help from noble people more easily.
However, there is also a certain degree of randomness in popularity. Even if a person has excellent personality and communication skills, he may not be welcomed in all situations. Similarly, even if a person has rich social resources, he may encounter exclusion or obstacles due to unpredictable factors. Therefore, we should not excessively pursue external recognition and praise, but should focus on our own growth and development, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and face various challenges in interpersonal relationships.
Are you popular? Are you often helped by noble people, or are you often squeezed out? Test it out.
