Pessimists are always right, optimists always move forward!
This quote expresses the philosophical view that pessimists tend to be able to foresee possible problems and challenges, so their concerns are justified to some extent. Optimists, however, choose to keep moving forward, regardless of the difficulties ahead, believing that a solution to the problem can be found. This attitude helps drive ...
Have you ever wondered how your life is shaped by your memories? Have you ever wondered how your memories are affected by your life? Have you ever wondered whether you could learn about other people's lives through their memories?
Memoirs are a form of literature that allows us to peek into other people's inner worlds, experience their life stories, feel their ups and downs and life insights, all...
Each of us is a clown, playing with these five balls in our life: family, work, health, friends and soul. Among the five balls, only the work ball is made of rubber and will bounce back when smashed. The other four balls are made of glass and will never recover after being smashed.
This sentence sounds very philosophical and very realistic. Each of us is going through different stages of life, c...
In modern society, parents may face some unexpected challenges, one of which is the early introduction of sexual activity to their underage daughters. As a parent, how you respond calmly, provide support, and take appropriate measures is not only related to your children's future development, but also their mental health and safety. So, what should parents do when they discover this situation? Thi...
In today's society, we often encounter various pressures and challenges. How can we make ourselves stronger and more resistant? In this blog post, I will give some suggestions from the following five aspects, hoping to inspire you.
Create risk awareness. We should consciously understand the real suffering life and have a more comprehensive understanding of the world, thereby creating a sense of c...
Pseudo-diligence may seem like a sign of diligence on paper, but in fact it is an inefficient or even ineffective behavior. Professor Jordan Peterson, a well-known psychology expert, has summarized four manifestations of pseudo-diligence. Let us understand them one by one.
1. Pseudo-diligent people will spend a lot of time doing the easiest things and show off their hard work everywhere.
This b...
Do you sometimes feel that your way of thinking is irrational or that you have made some wrong decisions? You may be 'tricked' by your own brain. The human brain is a very complex and magical organ that can help us process all kinds of information, solve problems, and create imaginations. However, the brain also has its limitations and flaws. It will be affected by some psychological biases (cogni...
In the workplace, we all hope to successfully achieve our goals, gain recognition from our bosses and colleagues, and enhance our value and status. However, sometimes we encounter difficulties and setbacks, and are even hindered by seemingly insignificant details. These details may be our own behavior or attitude, or it may be our communication or cooperation with others. If we do not discover and...
Do you envy those confident people who are always able to cope socially or at work? Do you want to have the same self-confidence? In fact, self-confidence is not innate, but can be cultivated!
It only takes 5 simple steps to develop self-confidence, and you can transform from a timid person to a confident person!
1. Use positive body language.
Your body will speak before you do. How you positio...
Writing a diary is a common way of self-expression. It can help us record every moment in our lives and also allow us to talk about our inner feelings. But you may not know that keeping a journal has an unexpected benefit: it can improve our immunity and reduce our risk of getting sick.
This discovery comes from an experiment conducted by University of Texas psychologist Jamie Pennebaker. He invi...
