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First Principles Thinking: How to Think Like a Genius
Have you ever wondered why some people are able to create amazing inventions and innovations, while others can only repeat other people's ideas? Have you ever wondered why some people are able to achieve excellence in a variety of fields, while others are limited to just one? Have you ever wondered why some people are able to solve complex problems while others just get stuck?
The answers to thes...
Is there a formula for success? 5 key laws to increase your winning rate in life!
Have you ever wondered why some people always succeed while others always hit a wall? Is it because they have any special talent or luck? Or is it because they have mastered some secret methods or techniques?
In fact, success is not a mysterious thing, but a set of scientific formulas and laws. This is the amazing truth revealed to us by Professor Barabasi in his book 'There is a Formula for Succ...
Does journaling help your physical and mental health? Science experiments reveal the principles behind
Writing a diary is a common way of self-expression. It can help us record every moment in our lives and also allow us to talk about our inner feelings. But you may not know that keeping a journal has an unexpected benefit: it can improve our immunity and reduce our risk of getting sick.
This discovery comes from an experiment conducted by University of Texas psychologist Jamie Pennebaker. He invi...
avoidant attachment personality
什么是回避型依恋人格?
回避型依恋人格(Avoidant Attachment Personality,简称AAP)是一种人格特质,指的是个体在亲密关系中表现出对依赖和亲密感的强烈拒绝和恐惧。回避型依恋人格的个体往往认为自己不值得被爱,也不信任他人的爱,因此会避免建立深层的情感联系,以免受到伤害或失望。
回避型依恋人格的成因是什么?
回避型依恋人格的成因可能与个体的早期生活经历有关。根据依恋理论,婴儿和幼儿需要与照顾者建立稳定和安全的依恋关系,以满足他们的情感和生理需求。如果照顾者经常忽视或拒绝婴儿和幼儿的求助信号,或者给予他们不一致或冷漠的反馈,那么婴儿和幼儿可能会形成回避型依恋风格。这种依恋风格会影响个体对自己和他人的看法,以及他们在成年后与他人交往的方式。
回避型依恋人格有哪些特征?
回避型依恋人格的个体通常有以下一些特征:
独立性强,不愿意寻求或接受他人的帮助
缺乏自我...
How to get out of the trough of life? 8 effective methods
There are always ups and downs in life, and sometimes we fall into troughs and feel frustrated, helpless, and confused. At such a time, how should we adjust our mentality and regain our direction and motivation? The following are 8 effective methods that I have summarized based on my own experience and learning. I hope they can inspire you.
1. Reduce interpersonal relationships. When we're at a l...
6 ways of thinking to make your heart extremely strong
Master the following 6 ways of thinking to make your heart extremely strong:
1. Be insensitive and simplify things
Many times, we cause ourselves a lot of unnecessary trouble because of our over-sensitivity. We think too much and take other people’s words and actions as hints or comments about ourselves, thus falling into emotions of self-doubt and self-blame.
Insensitivity is a way of thinking...
Essential psychological skills for waiters: practical ways to effectively increase tips
For servers, understanding certain principles of psychology can significantly increase tip earnings. According to multiple studies, while the size of a tip is supposed to correlate with the quality of service, this is not the case. Multiple studies have shown that factors that influence tipping often have nothing to do with service quality.
Group Impact and Tips
As early as 1975, psychologist Bi...
Can you still be friends with your ex after a breakup? |Teach you how to say goodbye rationally and break up with warmth
Have you ever had the experience that after you and your lover broke up, you still wanted to keep in touch with him/her or be friends again? Do you feel that breaking up is a very sad thing and you don’t know how to face it? Are you worried that a breakup will affect your life and work?
If you have these confusions, then please continue reading. I will tell you how to correctly deal with the sepa...
How to develop self-confidence? 5 steps to make you confident!
Do you envy those confident people who are always able to cope socially or at work? Do you want to have the same self-confidence? In fact, self-confidence is not innate, but can be cultivated!
It only takes 5 simple steps to develop self-confidence, and you can transform from a timid person to a confident person!
1. Use positive body language.
Your body will speak before you do. How you positio...
How to become a mentally stable person?
In this fast-paced society, we often encounter various pressures and challenges, and sometimes feel negative emotions such as anxiety, fear, and low self-esteem. These emotions can impact our productivity, relationships, and quality of life. So, how can we make our mentality more stable, more confident and optimistic? Below, we will share some methods, hoping to help you.
Think calmly and not be ...