Sexual psychology researchers believe that ‘feeling desired is a female orgasm.’
While the sight of an attractive man may turn a woman on, the thought of a man’s reaction to her—‘I wonder if he thinks I’m hot?’—is like a bolt of lightning striking her. brain.
In other words, girls can only freely stimulate sexual desire for men who care about their thoughts. Otherwise, if a girl thinks that this man is too rude, too selfish, or even unsympathetic, she will naturally lose sexual desire for him.
A woman wants to be desired by the man she likes, and knowing that her man desires her will spark her imagination and ignite sexy thoughts in her brain, as mentioned above.
Just as men usually expect a rich sex life after marriage, a woman also expects a lot of ongoing romance to ensure she desires sex.
In the traditional typical concept, the most perfect combination is the combination of sexual desire and love. That is to say, the sexual desire of both parties towards each other originates from the foundation of deep love, and the love of both parties is also sublimated through sex. The traditional concept is that sexual intercourse can only occur between men and women with ‘certified love’ (generally speaking, a marriage relationship). Sex and love are inseparable. When both parties fall in love, sexual desire will occur, and sexual intercourse only allows It happens between two men and women who are in love.
However, whether in modern society or ancient society, Western society or Eastern society, the phenomenon of love without sex or sex without love is ubiquitous. For example, from ancient times to the present, although prostitution is not accepted by social orthodoxy, it has always been Existing; from the ancient correspondence to the current telephone and Internet, two people can love to death even if they have not had any physical contact. Regarding these phenomena and problems, we can boil it down to whether sex and love must appear and disappear at the same time; or whether sexual desire and love can be separated.
From a physiological point of view, love is just the storage and reaction of a special emotion in the brain. There is no organ or tissue in the body that corresponds to love. Corresponding to sex, there are different reproductive organs for men and women in our bodies, and some glands in the brain and body can specifically secrete hormones and chemicals that promote sexual development and sexual desire.
According to research, people are least defensive when sleeping. Sleeping posture can reflect the truest needs of the heart, and the same is true for sex.
This test will look at your sleeping position to see what kind of sex and love you need? Let’s give it a try.
