Have you ever encountered such a situation: you are talking to someone, but the other person doesn't seem to understand what you mean, or disagrees with your point of view, or even quarrels with you. You feel aggrieved, angry, and helpless. Do you think, why is communication so difficult?
In fact, communication is not a difficult thing. As long as you master some methods and techniques, you can m...
Have you ever had the experience that when you are doing something you like, you will be completely immersed in it, forgetting time, hunger, fatigue, or even your own existence? This special mental state is called 'flow' by psychologists. It can make you more efficient and creative, while also making you feel happy and satisfied. So, how can you get into flow more easily? This article will introdu...
In the workplace, many people feel confused, unsure of their career development direction, or face problems such as burnout and anxiety. As an effective career planning tool, the career clover model helps us conduct comprehensive analysis and reflection from three aspects: 'interest', 'ability' and 'value', so as to find the balance point of career development and get out of the predicament.
1. W...
Assessing one's professional abilities and interests is a key step in formulating career planning. Here are some ways to help us better understand ourselves and find the right career direction:
1. Self-analysis: Review your past work and study experiences, summarize your skills, strengths and interests, and think about which jobs can make you feel satisfied and fulfilled.
2. Professional Test: Y...
In modern society, parents may face some unexpected challenges, one of which is the early introduction of sexual activity to their underage daughters. As a parent, how you respond calmly, provide support, and take appropriate measures is not only related to your children's future development, but also their mental health and safety. So, what should parents do when they discover this situation? Thi...
When we talk about 'mental savings accounts,' we're not talking about interest in the bank or investment funds. No, this account is a special ledger in our own hearts, which contains a magical currency: delayed gratification.
When we are faced with a delicious piece of chocolate cake, or a brand new game console, our brains will immediately produce a strong desire. This desire makes us want to en...
Falling in love is a beautiful thing, but it is also something that requires caution. You may meet all kinds of people, some will bring you happiness and some will bring you pain. If you want to find a suitable partner, you need to have a certain amount of predictability and be able to see the other person's true face before falling in love to avoid falling into a bad relationship.
What is predic...
MBTI type is a tool used to describe people's personality traits and preferences, which can help us better understand ourselves and others. Everyone has their own MBTI type, which consists of four letters representing four different dimensions:
Introversion (I) or Extroversion (E): Do you prefer to be alone or to interact with others?
Practical (S) or Intuitive (N): Do you rely more on your sense...
Have you ever suffered from this kind of invisible psychological abuse?
Have you ever had the experience of having your loved one or partner say something seemingly harmless to you in public, but it made you feel extremely uncomfortable, wronged, and angry? And when you express your emotions, others misunderstand you as being unreasonable, sensitive, suspicious, and ignorant? If so, congratulatio...
During the interview, there is a question that remains unchanged for thousands of years: 'Why did you leave your last job?' This is also the question that almost all interviewers are most afraid of facing. How to answer it beautifully and achieve a gorgeous turn? A profound task indeed. Instead of worrying about how to answer 'yourself', why not think about, if you are an employer, why do you need...