INFJ—The Counselor succeeds because of perseverance, creativity, and the intention that must be achieved. Will put the most effort into the work. Concern others quietly, powerfully, sincerely and with heart. Respected for adhering to principles. Propose a clear vision for the benefit of the public and be respected and followed. Pursue ideas, relationships, and the meaning and relevance of material possessions. Want to understand what inspires and provides insight into others. Be above board and believe in their values. Organized and decisive in executing its vision.
Overview: INFJ, introverted, intuitive, emotional and judgmental, is a type of counsellor. They have strong empathy and can understand other people’s feelings or intentions. They are usually good students. People with INFJ personality are suitable for medical consulting services, playwrights, art consultants, writers, etc. Creative and original, independent, thoughtful, enthusiastic and delicate; a global thinker with unique insights and high enthusiasm; meticulous and thoughtful; well-planned, organized, productive and decision-making; Be restrained and polite. One of the four types of idealists. Personality Traits: Counselors (INFJs) seek meaning and connections between ideas, relationships, physical objects, and more. I hope to understand what motivates people and have a strong insight into people. Be responsible and stick to your own values. Have a clear vision on how to better serve the public. Plan and be decisive in achieving goals. INFJ people are loyal, determined, and idealistic. They value integrity and are very determined. INFJs make great leaders because of their ability to persuade and their clear vision of what is best for the common good. They are often respected or admired for their contributions. Because they value friendship and harmony, INFJs like to convince others that their views are correct. They win the cooperation of others by using praise and praise rather than arguments and threats. They are willing to motivate their peers without reservation and avoid arguments. INFJ people live in a world of ideas. They are independent, original thinkers with strong feelings, firm principles, and human integrity. Even in the face of doubt, INFJs still trust their own opinions and decisions. They value themselves above all else, including popular opinion and existing authority, and this inner sense motivates them. Usually INFJ people have instinctive insight and can see the deeper meaning of things. Even if others cannot share their passion, inspiration is important and compelling to them. Typically INFJ people are thoughtful decision-makers. They find problems exciting and they usually think carefully before acting. They like to concentrate on one thing at a time, which can lead to periods of intense concentration. Full of enthusiasm and compassion, INFJs have a strong desire to contribute to the happiness of others. They are attentive to other people’s emotions and interests and can handle complex people well. INFJ type people themselves have deep and complex personalities, which are both sensitive and eager. They are introverted and difficult to understand, but are willing to share their inner selves with people they trust. They often have a small circle of friends with deep and lasting contacts, and in the right atmosphere can generate full personal enthusiasm and passion. Advice is a guiding behavior, with the purpose of helping people realize their human potential. Advisers have an unusually strong desire to promote the happiness and peace of others, and sincerely like to guide their companions and gain a greater degree of happiness. Personal realization. This type of people is extremely rare, accounting for only 1% of the population. From the perspective of their role in society, this is a very detrimental phenomenon. Although these people tend to be relatively private and understanding people, and thus are not usually visible leaders, they still work enthusiastically with those around them and quietly influence other family members, friends, and colleagues. These reclusive, friendly people, who are themselves difficult to understand, are able to understand and deal with complex ethical issues and deal with deeply restless individuals. They are naturally good at arranging things, and are accustomed to choosing a disciplinary guidance role rather than an advocate role. Moreover, their quiet and reserved personality determines that they seem to be more satisfied with the role of advisor. Counselors are difficult to understand. They are unusually rich in content, but reserved and unwilling to share their feelings with others except those they trust. Of course, when they are with their loved ones, they will express their feelings without any pretense: they will be radiant, indicating their happy emotions, and their faces will be gloomy, indicating their displeasure. Because of their sheer instinct for experiencing the emotions of others, counselors can be quite easily hurt by those around them. At the same time, friends who have known them for many years may be surprised by their multiplicity. It is not that they are inconsistent; on the contrary, they attach great importance to honest character, but have mysterious and complex personalities that sometimes even confuse themselves. .
He can learn other people’s feelings or intentions, whether good or evil, even before the individual has any consciousness. In addition, they can understand the power of the supernatural, namely, omens and psychic involvements. Because of their rich and vivid imagination, they are often regarded as the most poetic, even mysterious, of all types. They often choose literature and art as their major subjects in college, and their excellent talents in language mean that they usually communicate with others in a humane way. In school, they are generally good students, display achievements in homespun creativity, enjoy solving difficult problems, and take their work seriously. They are energetic in professional fields that require interaction with people, providing nutrients for their personal development. Although counselors have talents that are better suited to jobs that require solitude and close attention, they also excel when interacting with groups and are informal. They are accustomed to working with high sensitivity and effectiveness when dealing with people. They are willing to help others solve difficult problems and can understand and use the laws of human nature creatively and kindly. Value harmonious internal relationships and hope that the organization can run smoothly and happily, and do its best to achieve this goal. They like to please others and view conflict as unpleasant and destructive. They will kindly praise others, appreciate and inspire others, which is their way. If they encounter adverse working conditions or criticism, they can become depressed, which can eventually lead to physical illness. In addition, about 40% of INFJ people have IQs above 130. They are difficult to understand, mysterious, highly complex, and sometimes confusing even to themselves. Their world is very orderly, but arranged in a complex way that only they can understand. INFJs are one of the rarest types in the United States, accounting for approximately 1% of the population. They seek meaning and connection between ideas, relationships, objects, etc. I hope to understand what motivates people and have a strong insight into people. Be responsible and stick to your own values. Have a clear vision on how to better serve the public. Plan and be decisive in achieving goals. INFJ people live in a world of ideas. They are independent, original thinkers with strong feelings, firm principles, and human integrity. Even in the face of doubt, INFJs still trust their own opinions and decisions. They value themselves above all else, including popular opinion and existing authority, and this inner sense motivates them. Usually INFJ people have instinctive insight and can see the deeper meaning of things. Even if others cannot share their passion, inspiration is important and compelling to them. INFJ people are loyal, determined, and idealistic. They value integrity and are very determined to the point of being stubborn. INFJs make great leaders because of their ability to persuade and their clear vision of what is best for the common good. They are often respected or admired for their contributions. Because they value friendship and harmony, INFJs like to convince others that their views are correct. They win the cooperation of others by using praise and praise rather than arguments and threats. They are willing to motivate their peers without reservation and avoid arguments. Typically INFJ people are thoughtful decision-makers. They find problems exciting and they usually think carefully before acting. They like to concentrate on one thing at a time, which can lead to periods of intense concentration. Full of enthusiasm and compassion, INFJs have a strong desire to contribute to the happiness of others. They are attentive to other people’s emotions and interests and can handle complex people well. INFJ type people themselves have deep and complex personalities, which are both sensitive and eager. They are introverted and difficult to understand, but are willing to share their inner selves with people they trust. They often have a small circle of friends with deep and lasting contacts, and in the right atmosphere can generate full personal enthusiasm and passion.
Suitable occupations: Consulting/education: career counselors, clinical psychologists, teachers: high school Or college foreign language, art, music, social science, drama, educational consultant, librarian, special education teacher, bilingual education teacher, sociologist, occupational therapist, child welfare counselor, early education teacher, psychological counselor, development psychologist. These careers allow INFJs to use their own perspectives and knowledge to help others. The consulting or educational fields require personal collaboration, often intensive interaction with others on a one-to-one basis. INFJs love to learn and take pleasure in learning something new and the opportunity to grow in a career in education, so they are usually quite comfortable working in an academic setting. Creative careers: Artist, playwright, poet, novelist, interior designer, freelance media planner, multimedia producer, website editor, film editor, educational design developer, costume designer. For INFJs, the appeal of art lies in their ability to use their talents to create unique works while incorporating their own perspective and imagination into them. Through art, INFJs can express themselves in their own unique way, while at the same time shocking others with their artistic charm. What’s more, most of the works of art are generally completed by themselves, which allows INFJs to arrange and control their own work. environment, process, and artwork. Health Care/Social Services: Health care administrators, social service agency directors, dietitians/nutritionists, speech-language pathologists/audiologists, holistic health care physicians, funding coordinators, orthopedic therapists. Social service work requires conscientiousness in serving others, and often involves joining a social service organization. Most INFJs enjoy working in such an environment, especially if the organization consists of a small group of highly organized staff. Social service allows INFJs to think of new ways to solve personal and social problems and put them into action. Business: Human resources manager, career analyst, company/team trainer, merchandise planner, consumer relations consultant. Although INFJs do not flock to the business world in large numbers, there are areas where INFJs can find professional satisfaction. These careers require them to be interested in different people, help others find jobs, create effective work environments, and solve people-centered problems. INFJs can find satisfaction in these jobs in the business world. It’s actually easy to use your strengths. Suitable partner: Inventor type: Often a perfect partner, the Adviser is reserved, strategizing, complex, mysterious, often troubled by introspection and ethical issues; while the Inventor is extroverted and good at exploring . Advisers can gain considerable relief from inventors, who derive great satisfaction from helping these conformists, and sometimes discover the essence and meaning of their existence in the planning of things. . About the Family: These soft-spoken mentors also want harmony in their families and believe that overt or covert conflicts between people can be extremely damaging to their happiness. Their circle of friends may be small, but it is deep and long-lasting. They are loyal companions and may not always be keen on sexual encounters. The way they express their emotions is often subtle and occasion-focused. As parents, they are dedicated. Some women counselors will have a spiritual cooperative relationship with their children. This rather fixed relationship is not very healthy for both parents and children. However, most counselors are friends of their children. While they are extremely loving, they will also strictly control them. They are typical people who care about their spouse and children. About Leadership: They are the most unobtrusive mentors, these quiet and sensitive individuals who engage with their clients with passion and influence the growth of others. They have an uncanny awareness of the needs and abilities of others and encourage others to explore their own talents. They are very rare and cannot recommend themselves. Therefore, they are rare in an organization, but their role cannot be ignored. For people of the INFJ type, the most important thing is to be true to their own visions. Beneath their quiet exterior, they have a deeper belief in the important events of life. Activists (INFJs tend to do this) work not for personal glory or political power, but for their own cause! No one will experience more oppression and ravage than them. They can often be seen running for first aid at the scene of emergencies. INFJ people embody a concept of poetic justice. INFJs are not easily influenced by others, and they are not easily fooled or deceived at any time. Although INFJs are very reasonable and compassionate, they are very picky about their friends, and this kind of friendship is based on mutual interests. INFJ people have their own knack for language proficiency and communication skills. In addition, INFJ people’s sensitivity of expressing without too many words allows them to communicate well with people. There is certainly a place for INFJs in writing, consulting, public relations, and even politics. Love: INFJs are passionate and have a sense of identification with others. At the same time, they are also very deep. They seek and foster passionate and meaningful emotional relationships. They have perfectionist tendencies and are always striving for the most fundamental emotional relationship. In most cases this is a positive trait, but sometimes it works against the INFJ, who may develop the bad habit of moving from one relationship to another, always looking for a more perfect partner. Overall, the INFJ is a very gentle and caring person who invests heavily in maintaining the health of their close relationships and makes great efforts to maintain a positive attitude about themselves. Because of these special qualities, they win the respect of those close to them. They seek long-lasting, lifelong emotional relationships, although they don’t always find them. Advantages of INFJ in relationships: naturally passionate, with a sense of identification with others, desperate to pursue true feelings, sensitive and caring about the feelings of others, usually good at communication Skills, especially in writing, take commitment very seriously and seek lifelong relationships, have very high expectations of yourself and others (both a strength and weakness), be a good listener, and recover quickly from relationships that have ended (once they I’m sure it’s over).
INFJ’s weaknesses in relationships: tend to retain part of themselves, not good at financial management and practical daily affairs , extremely hate quarrels and criticism, have very high expectations for themselves and others (both strengths and weaknesses), and find it difficult to leave a fruitless relationship. INFJs are warm, caring companions who feel a deep love for their partners. They enjoy showing this affection and hope to receive a positive response from their partner. They are perfectionists and always looking for the perfect love. This can sometimes be frustrating to their partners, who may feel they are falling victim to the INFJ’s demanding perfectionism. However, this can also be greatly appreciated because it offers a genuine commitment to the relationship and a deep caring that is not often found in other types. When it comes to sex, INFJs view intimacy as a nearly spiritual experience. They value the opportunity to become one with their partner. As service-oriented people, it is very important to them that their partner is happy. Intimacy is an opportunity for the INFJ to give their love selflessly and to experience giving love in a clear way. Although two individuals of any personality type can have a healthy relationship as long as their personalities are fully developed. However, a more suitable natural partner for an INFJ is an ENTP or ENFP personality. INFJ’s dominant function is “Introverted Intuition” which best matches the dominant function of these two personality types, “Extroverted Intuition”. Idealism: Language - abstract type, suitable for things that cannot be observed and rely only on imagination. Idealism often talks about things that can only be imagined by imagination. The ideas and language of idealists are inherently inductive. They are keen, draw generalizations from details, and understand everything from the subtleties of things. They value their own feelings and insist that they “certainly know” what people really want. He often uses metaphors when speaking, and likes to use decorative language, exaggeration and description. On the one hand, they ignore hierarchical status, and on the other hand, they are highly sensitive to the body language, facial expressions, etc. of other types of people. Use tools - cooperative, from the idealist’s perspective, the tools and actions people choose need to be accepted by others, although sometimes they are not as effective as those that are not recognized. They are very confused by utilitarian behavior that is too indifferent or single-mindedly pursues results, and they worry that the good side of human nature will be lost as a result. Idealists’ first priority is always to cultivate satisfying interpersonal relationships. Their ideal is to help people around them get along well with each other so that everyone works for the common good. Most idealists have little interest in buying and selling, and many pursue careers in the natural sciences. They usually choose to work with language and hope to communicate with others directly or indirectly. Idealists are very easily infected by literary works and tend to interpret it in terms of this natural susceptibility. They like any form of fictional description - stories, poems, legends, myths, which can make them feel happy and happy. strength. Idealists are not limited to the study of literature; idealists are highly concentrated in the field of social sciences. Especially in terms of mental rehabilitation, they can get great satisfaction from mental health services and are accustomed to choosing the most humanitarian methods and providing service consultations. They go to great lengths to make people feel good about themselves and are zealous about morality and judgments about right and wrong, rather than cultivating a positive self-image. Idealists and Guardians are both moral guardians, but the former is concerned with happiness, while the latter is concerned with justice. They have a very special talent at work: recruiting, training, subordinates, development and advice. They excel at influencing the growth and maturation process of others. They see education not as a process of training and validation, but as an invitation to personal relationships. Forming interpersonal relationships is vital to them, however, interfering too much in other people’s affairs may be annoying. Moreover, too many complex interpersonal relationships can easily lead to excessive mental load. Personality Positioning: Altruism advocates that selfishness is immoral, while serving others is noble. The greatest happiness comes from selfless dedication to others, that is, self-sacrifice. They will devote themselves to helping others. Of course, they long for a “self-realization” effect. They believe things easily and without reservation, in sharp contrast to the skeptical rationalists. Idealists who are accustomed to believing in others are very pure. They try to come to terms with life’s difficulties and find accidents puzzling and inexplicable, and cannot be explained by any rational analysis. They bravely accept the idea that effects and causes cannot be understood or described in words.
They are content to move forward, guiding them to explore the meaning of survival, and taking them to a higher level of trails. They are people of the future, more concerned with what is to come than with real life. Values: Idealists are very emotional, that is, feelings come and go quickly. Fortunately, they tend to be on the positive side, so their feelings often take the form of great passion. Idealists rely on the power of intuition and rely on first impressions without confirmation. Trusting their intuition without reservation, they will bring other people’s feelings into their own feeling zone, hoping to empathize with them in order to close the distance. They are both committed romantics who crave romance in every aspect and will cultivate it if it’s not available. They devote a lot of their time to pursuing their own identity and the meaning of humanity, so as to express their true self, and regard this as the most important career in life. To make them feel appreciated, we must confront them and “fit into their world view” when they express their feelings. They are often misunderstood or forced into role-playing errors due to social realities. The praise of those they care about is very important to them and is satisfying when it occurs. The saint is the most revered role model for idealists, that is, a man or woman who strives to overcome material and worldly concerns and longs for wise insights in life. Spiritual Partner: Idealists are a very different type of all types and deal with marital issues very differently. Other types of people, who have a pragmatic attitude towards marriage, believe that partners will make mistakes and that comes with compromises. Idealists, on the other hand, will choose their lovers with a utopian attitude and more often demand the romantic activities of a partner and marriage. They demand a mysterious and meaningful marital relationship and try to create it where it does not exist. Mate selection: Idealistic people usually do not make a commitment to someone, but would rather fall in love with one person at a time to explore the possibility of developing a special intimate relationship. They don’t like to deal with casual or temporary dates, and uniquely expect that superficial relationships in the past can become deeper. They like to talk about movies or novels that have deeply moved them, but they tend to talk about the profound meaning revealed in the story rather than simply describing the plot. This ability to communicate freely and freely with others in an imaginative and meaningful way often determines whether an idealist can take a particular relationship seriously. It is difficult for idealists to find the kind of person they want to share their inner world with. It is a process of trial and error and requires careful search. For idealists, falling in love with someone means more than just physical pleasure or social experience, but rather the process of opening one’s heart to another person. To a certain extent, it is the exposure of one’s own soul, containing the commitment and expectation of deep respect and mutual understanding. Therefore, they are highly sensitive to rejection. When the other party shows contempt, they have to take the initiative to break off the relationship. The emotional breakdown will cause them great harm. So much so that they sometimes avoid getting entangled with others out of fear, or go to the other extreme and stay in a relationship against their will, just to postpone the mental damage they must experience when breaking up. However, once that special someone comes along, idealists become excited and pursue the relationship with all their might. For the idealist, not only a happy marriage, but also an extraordinarily strong, everlasting emotion is on the horizon. They don’t skimp on effort or imagination, marked not only by their romantic demeanor but also by their idealization of love. Idealists are able to discern from the most subtle signs the passionate and poetic feelings inherent in the person they are passionately in love with, believe that everyone has the potential for spiritual growth, and intend to use love to explore this potential in their partner. Perhaps idealists are not willing to admit that these romantic ideas often have strong sexual impulses and become a kind of obsession. The sexual feelings of idealists may vary greatly. On the one hand, they insist that sexual behavior must be an expression of love, not desire; on the other hand, they are very passionate and extremely enthusiastic in the ideal world they have established. Easily moved by beautiful bodies and sensuality. Once two people are united, the idealist will feel supreme happiness. However, the expectation attracts them more than the union itself. The reality of daily life loses its mysterious color and appears ordinary and lacking. Other types of people will certainly feel that there are differences in their lives, but they will transform this difference through adjustment, travel, and hard work. However, male idealists are the most vulnerable in this regard, and tend to seek out a new lover rather than put in the effort to develop an existing relationship. Female idealists don’t; instead, they become increasingly committed, continuing to romanticize the relationship and believe in its perfection. For male idealists, intimacy can lead to instability; for women, it is integral. However, it is worth noting that the 1860s and 1870s may have originated from the imagination of female idealists for a more perfect marriage relationship. Most members of the vanguard of sexual liberation were female idealists (especially strivers) who were not ready to sacrifice themselves for love, but rather lived for the possibility of discovering more satisfying ways of relating to men. . However, most idealists do not value the social conventions of marriage as more important than their personal commitments. Therefore, when they are convinced that they have entered into a deeper union with each other and have exchanged vows, they are considered to be married. The wedding ceremony and understanding become an unnecessary burden, and you may appear flustered and confused at the altar, and will not return to normal until you are alone with your spouse afterwards. These idealists are enthusiastic, generous, lively, passionate, cautious and sensitive to interpersonal relationships, and are very attractive to people of other temperament types. Artistic creators feel intimate with their creative use of romantic feelings and can be morally elevated by the ethical component that idealists bring to marriage; defenders feel safe in the moral caution that idealists display However, it is the rationalists who are most interested in the idealists, not only because of their commonalities, but also because of the emotional vitality of the idealists and their impact on mankind. Insight, these are what rational people lack. Marriage: No matter what personality type they marry, they are likely to always love, support and understand their wife or husband. Idealists are unparalleled in the emotional world, adding to married life their extraordinary sensitivity to their spouse’s emotions and feelings and their excellent ability to communicate emotionally. They pay keen attention to the experiences of others, instinctively sympathize with their spouses, and are unwilling to use that moment to point out the mistakes their spouses have made, which is often something that people of other temperaments cannot do. Idealists are often well versed in the art of appreciation, and they are accustomed to expressing heartfelt praise generously to their loved ones. Undoubtedly, idealists make the most affectionate, dedicated, loving, and appreciative spouses, and express these feelings without reservation. They have the ability to completely immerse themselves in the spiritual world of others, so that the other person has a feeling of being fully understood and accepted by them. They believe that establishing an intimate, loving relationship is the most natural thing in the world, and they are true masters of the art of sex. Although sometimes this sensitivity comes at a cost, and they get upset when their emotions are restricted, they always get more affection from their spouse than they can handle.
In addition, they are troubled by the emotional dependence of their spouses, although sometimes their actions encourage these dependencies. . Idealists will still resent the pressure if their spouse begins to show signs of vulnerability and dependence that they have committed to. The lover they thought was unique now feels clearly rejected by them. It’s not that they mean to be mean, but they just want to escape from a marriage that they can no longer control. Idealists have difficulty escaping the call of their careers to make time for their families, and they cannot learn to escape from complex affairs to ensure that their families occupy the primary position in their lives. Those idealists who do not know how to prioritize their affairs are tempted to fall in love with other people, giving up the deepening of the existing love and focusing their energy on pursuing new relationships. However, most Idealists find great satisfaction in developing dedicated love. They focus on cultivating the romantic sentiment in marriage and have the dual identities of lover and partner. However, sex in the early stages of marriage will disappoint idealists, because they are surprisingly naive in this regard, and often have more enthusiasm than skill, and are unwilling to try other methods. Idealists are generally good at social activities, extroverts, and very active in social activities; while introverts tend to create a private space at home. However, they are considerate family members and usually remember anniversaries. Likewise, they will be hurt if an anniversary that is meaningful to them is forgotten by others. Idealists greatly appreciate the free and natural nature of artistic creator spouses in the real world, which is very different from their often tormented and guilt-ridden life experience. In addition, the Artistic Partner’s love of sensuality and bold sexual desires also attracts the Idealist type and stimulates their romantic imagination. But there are also seeds of dissatisfaction in this kind of marriage, namely the lack of interest in talking about the meaning of one’s own life. Being with a Guardian partner gives Idealists a sense of comfort and reassuring stability at home, giving them a sense of groundedness. Guardians also have a firmness and precise sense of right and wrong that awes often hesitant idealists. Both are social collaborators and reduce conflicts in life standards. However, guardians are confused in sharing the richness of idealists and risk disappointing their idealist partners. They listen faithfully and try to please the idealist, but sooner or later the latter will feel unappreciated, which in turn puts pressure on both. It is easy to get married with people of the same temperament, and they often get along extremely harmoniously. Their exploration of each other’s inner world makes each other satisfied, and they may also create a wonderful sexual relationship for a while. However, too much similarity, too much time spent pursuing spiritual goals and exhaustion, and too much inner communication will inevitably invade each other’s private space and cause both parties to feel uneasy. Choosing a rational person as a mate seems to best ensure the success of idealists. The basis of their mutual coordination is that both basically live in an abstract world. After dating other types, a chance encounter with a rational person can make idealists feel like they’ve discovered a new world and long to be able to imagine the distant future. At the same time, what is fascinating is the calmness and autonomy of rational people. Both characteristics are firmly grasping their own nature, causing the easily excited and introspective idealists to admire them and hope to imitate them. . Of course, the two didn’t always get along. The conflict between the idealist’s emotional expression and the rationalist’s self-control, intuition and logic, ethics and technical pragmatism creates challenges in even the most perfect combination. Idealists always try to break through the resistance and superficial indifference of rational people to expressing emotions. It is conceivable that sparks fly. Perhaps it is because of these sparks that idealists have a soft spot for rational people. Family: They are a passionate bunch of little guys, known as the “Grumpy Ones” because their feelings are so easily triggered and can sometimes manifest themselves with surprising intensity. As a child, I was always inspired by a passion and could hardly keep my emotions in a calm state. They may have started talking earlier, are extroverted, and have never stopped talking in the eyes of their parents; introverted, also have strong feelings, but are often shy to express them, and may also have some difficulties in interpersonal communication, especially It’s outside the family. Although idealist children may sometimes be irritable, they can also be flattering. They are a kind of human enthusiasm who likes to understand others. They showed all kinds of special systems very early, but unfortunately, in most cases, they rarely had a model of behavior. Not many elders are good at communication activities, so they must understand themselves and improve themselves. The idealist -like children are often very sensitive to those closest. When family members are in harmony, their self -feelings are peaceful. When their parents or compatriots are sad, they also become sad. The family is happy, and the child’s self -esteem can develop earlier; otherwise, the defense ability of deserved problems is lacking. They tend to show their good intentions instead of providing specific help to others. They have high moral expectations since childhood, hoping that their attitudes and behaviors to others are perfect. In presence of people in front of people, they will feel very uncomfortable, and they rarely seek applause. Of course, they also try to adapt to others and like to be praised by adults, but they do not build self -confidence here. They want others to admit that they are independent individuals, and they feel the differences between themselves and others, but they can’t recognize what this difference is. The idealist and rational children may have some feelings of alienation with others, but the children of rational types still insist on their own way. The idealist child is very satisfied with their own public. Ideal -type children need their parents to acknowledge their uniqueness and recognize their important role in love, which helps them identify their independent and valuable family members qualifications. They need such a message, “You are a very special person, I value you, and you are important to me.” This type of child is most trustworthy to others and believes that intuition is better than behavioral specifications. In addition, they listen to stories with other children, which is easier to firmly believe that the story is real and even stubborn. They like to listen to a story repeatedly, and tell them to tell them. They like the stories of the Middle Ages, as well as princes, princesses, evil forces and witch. Parents should guide them to read some stories with a happy ending. The Warriors eventually wins and the bad guys change their evils. In this way, they will be attracted by eternal happiness, no matter how much hope and dreams are destroyed in the relentless reality in the future.
Children of an idealist type have no precious toys. Make them unfortunate. They treat toys as friends, of course, they will be ridiculed and rejected by others, so that they will experience the rejection of personality. Ideal -type children are altruistic and global. And these children have a certain tendency to doubt. They are always enthusiastic about exploring a certain concept worthy of faith. Always try to establish a close and harmonious relationship with children. Looking forward to the life of children, and promoting them with their positive image. They are meticulous and endless to their children. ** Development suggestions **: The secret of the success of INFJ is: pay attention to details; learn to be more flexible; you must spontaneously and voluntarily do whatever you do. Don’t let people urge you. If you want to have a deeper understanding of MBTI personality types, you must not miss PsycTest’s ! Here, you can test your MBTI type for free, and there are also various exciting articles waiting for you to explore. PsycTest’s MBTI section will help you better understand yourself and others, master more interpersonal communication skills, and better move toward success and happiness. Let’s discover more exciting content together! For INFJ type personality, we have specially launched a paid reading version of the WeChat public account (psyctest) . The advanced personality profile is more detailed and more advanced than the free interpretation, aiming to further meet your individual needs and expectations.
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