Can you still reunite with a broken mirror?

‘The broken mirror is round again, the hairpin and the nail is combined, and the embroidered beads and foils are re-finished.’ This is a metaphor for the couple who are separated or divorced and reunite. The allusion of reuniting the mirror comes from the Southern Dynasty. Princess Lechang of Chen State and her husband Xu Deyan got together after they were separated. Later, the reunion of the mirror was extended to the reunion of the couple after separation or breaking, and reconciliation as before. Can the broken mirror really be reunited? The answer is yes. However, after the cracked mirror revolves, there will be cracks, which are clearly visible. Even skilled craftsmen with great skill will find it difficult to restore their original appearance. This is like the two people who broke up can reconcile, but may not be as good as before. As Nalan said in her poem, if life was just like the first meeting, why would the autumn wind make a sad painting fan? If life can really be as beautiful as when we first met, how could there be so many regrets? Many times, the broken mirror may not be able to reunite. Because even if you reconcile, you cannot be as good as before. Some people say that the best outcome after separation is to forget each other. Some people say that if you are destined to be together, you will meet again in the future. But, who knows? Most of the reunion in the world is not accidental. Just like when you send your beloved home, no matter how far you go, you will say the way, and it will be quiet and not mention your anxiety about rushing. Because you have love in your heart, you care about each other in your heart. If one day you are separated, no matter how close you are, you may find an excuse to avoid the opportunity to walk with her. Because, there is no love in your heart, she is no longer the person you care about the most. The person you want to meet is separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, more than ten or twenty years, because of the reluctance in your heart, the regret in your heart, and the words you have not finished, you will also try every means to find the figure of that year. Whether it is family, friendship, or love, only by having love in your heart can we forgive each other and be as reconciled as before. The former cracks of couples who are reunited with mirrors can only be repaired and repaired for a long time in the future until the traces are worn away. However, if you are so heartless that it is difficult to recover from the water, no matter how powerful the glue is, it is difficult to repair the broken mirror. The gap between the soul can hardly be filled by the wind and sand of many years. Just like you who have been away from your hometown for many years, full of attachment to your hometown, day and night. Finally one day, you set foot on your hometown, everything is like yesterday, but you feel indescribable in your heart, feeling lost. Did you change, or did others change? In fact, everything has changed, every minute and every second of this world is changing. Today, we cannot find the mood we were yesterday, and we cannot feel the mood we were many years ago. Many times, even if you are reluctant or helpless, you cannot save everything you have lost, whether it is a person or a matter. In fact, many of the beauty are the result of our imagination. Back to reality, it may not be the same as imagined. Just like that famous saying: I wish you will run away for half your life and return to be a young man. This is just a beautiful wish. Many people are no longer the teenagers of the past, and you and I are like this. Since you can’t get back to the origin, why bother to get involved? Therefore, the broken mirror cannot be reunited, and you should not be sad. Cherish the present and live every day of your life better than thousands of useless promises. When breaking up, there is always one party who will be reluctant to leave, thinking that you are a natural couple and don’t understand why you broke up, so they always ask questions like “We can still be friends”. Before breaking up, two very familiar people became strangers in a blink of an eye. Can you still reunite with them?