When there is a sexual interest gap between men and women, an interesting situation arises: most women need to experience more emotional intimacy to have sexual interest, while men need satisfying sex to give each other more emotional intimacy. . So, we happened to miss it on a fork in the road.
When making love becomes as routine as brushing your teeth, even the routine is missing, when you start to call it ‘paying public favors’, when this dialogue happens repeatedly between you, or in your heart - ‘I’m not in the mood, I’m exhausted.’ ‘If you spend a day with a child like me, you will understand why I have no interest in sex at all.’ ‘You should be nicer to me, that’s why I have such thoughts.’ ‘I don’t want it now.’ “I just don’t want it.”…
Then it is very likely that your marriage has entered a state of inertia. Sex therapy expert Michele Weiner-Davis pointed out in ‘Sex-Hungry Marriage’ that one out of every three couples in the United States has a sexual desire gap - she wants more than he does, or he wants more than she does, and is not satisfied. One party feels deeply rejected and ignored, and the other party is not relaxed either. The other party’s demands bring great pressure to him or her, and accusations, indifference, and resentment gradually accumulate into a high wall… She pointed out that in this kind of ‘sexual hunger’ ‘In a marriage, sex life is not the only casualty. What is also hurt is the intimate relationship between each other and the future of the couple.
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