Have you ever encountered such a situation: you are talking to someone, but the other person doesn't seem to understand what you mean, or disagrees with your point of view, or even quarrels with you. You feel aggrieved, angry, and helpless. Do you think, why is communication so difficult?
In fact, communication is not a difficult thing. As long as you master some methods and techniques, you can m...
Do you often doubt your abilities? Do you feel like you can't achieve your goals? Are you feeling insecure about your future? If your answer is yes, then you may lack self-efficacy. So, what is self-efficacy? Why is it so important? How to improve self-efficacy? This article will answer these questions for you, help you improve your self-confidence, and realize your dreams.
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What is self-effica...
In the fast-paced modern society, everyone may experience some stress. Psychological stress refers to the psychological response of an individual to an individual's inability to adapt to the environment. It can come from a variety of factors, such as work, family, interpersonal relationships, etc. If you feel that your psychological stress is relatively high, don’t worry, there are now free psycho...
Have you ever had the experience that sometimes you exhibit behaviors or thoughts that are inconsistent with your usual personality traits, leaving you confused or surprised? Have you ever thought about where these behaviors or thoughts come from, and what meaning and effect they have on you? If you are interested in these questions, this article may give you some inspiration.
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Today, I want to share with you some solid life advice, especially for my female friends. These suggestions are based on the following ten principles. I hope you can benefit from them.
1. Reduce dependence on emotional needs. Emotional needs are one of the basic needs of human beings, but over-reliance on emotions will make you lose yourself and fall into irrational behavior and decision-making. ...
Have you ever suffered from this kind of invisible psychological abuse?
Have you ever had the experience of having your loved one or partner say something seemingly harmless to you in public, but it made you feel extremely uncomfortable, wronged, and angry? And when you express your emotions, others misunderstand you as being unreasonable, sensitive, suspicious, and ignorant? If so, congratulatio...
Job hunting is no longer an easy task for college students. Many college students will encounter some confusions and problems after graduation, such as not knowing which career is suitable for them, not being able to find a job that matches their major, not having a strong enough diploma, and insufficient work experience. These problems may seem complex, but they actually have some feasible soluti...
Have you ever had the experience that when you are doing something you like, you will be completely immersed in it, forgetting time, hunger, fatigue, or even your own existence? This special mental state is called 'flow' by psychologists. It can make you more efficient and creative, while also making you feel happy and satisfied. So, how can you get into flow more easily? This article will introdu...
Family is the cradle of our growth and our closest interpersonal relationship. However, families are not always harmonious and happy, and sometimes there are conflicts, contradictions, disappointments and other emotions. How do we maintain our selves and intimacy within our families, taking care of our own needs while maintaining the bond between our families?
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Why are you affected by your fami...
As a senior bourgeois woman, Xiao Ke has passed the age of 30 many years ago, but she often regrets in her midnight dreams: If she had done more, would things be different now? Observing the successful female friends around me, I concluded that if you do it before the age of 30, you will not be able to buy 6 things that you already know!
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1. Learn foreign languages well
Xiaoke majored in Japan...