A standard i person is an introvert who doesn’t like socializing and prefers to stay alone in his comfort zone. However, every New Year and Festival, i people will face some situations that make them very uncomfortable. These situations may be very normal for e people, but for i people, it is simply the darkest moment.
Today, I will share with you the darkest moments of being an i person. If you are also an i person, or you have a friend of i person, then you will definitely resonate with it. If you are an e-person, then you can also see how different the world of i-person is.
1. The i-person who was forced to say hello to a strange relative
i people: Mom, I don’t want to say hello to relatives I don’t know much. Mom: Go for me, or I will shoot!
2. When someone asks someone out during the Spring Festival
I just want to rest quietly at home.
3. The process of social gradient of i people
Letting i go out to socialize for a day is like experiencing a lifetime of vicissitudes.
4. I people’s social power
2 people: Fully powered, able to communicate with another person freely and enjoy intimate relationships
3 people: 75%, and can still deal with the conversation between the three, but start to feel some pressure
4 people: 50%, has reached the limit of social interaction and needs to be constantly allocated to pay attention and respond
5 people: 25%, completely unable to concentrate, just want to escape from the scene
6 people: 0%, completely collapsed, lost all energy and consciousness
5. When i and e-friends go shopping and meet e-friends and don't know each other
i people went shopping with e people's friends and suddenly met an acquaintance of e people. e people greeted their acquaintance enthusiastically, but i people didn't know that person, so they could only stand restrainedly on the side of e people, not knowing what to say, only embarrassment and discomfort.
6. 'Talking with others' in the eyes of i people
In the eyes of people, chatting with others is like doing a very difficult sports movement, which is a high-intensity plank support, which requires the muscles of the whole body to be tightened and withstand huge pressure.
7. I-person social strategies
e-people are very eager to chat with others and look for people to communicate everywhere, just like a hungry bird, hungry for feeding. The i-person does not want to socialize with others at all. As long as you pretend that you cannot see the e-person, you can avoid being disturbed, just like a lazy cat sleeping with your eyes closed.
8. Why don’t i people love socializing
Why don’t i people like socializing? Because it’s embarrassing not to speak, and it’s embarrassing to speak.
9. When i people want to try to socialize a little, but don’t want to leave their comfort zone
Common manifestations:
Chat online, but only post emoticons and don't speak
Party offline, but only eat, don't talk
Like on social media, but don't comment or forward
Listen to others on the phone, but only deal with it, not speak
Conclusion
In fact, many e-people may not understand and think that these are normal things and no big deal. However, for i people, these are very difficult challenges and require a lot of courage and patience. Therefore, I hope e people can understand and tolerate more, don’t force i people to do things they don’t like, and don’t laugh at i people for being bad at socializing. i people also have their own advantages, for example, they are often very creative, thoughtful, profound and individual. i and e people can actually learn from each other, appreciate each other, and grow from each other. I hope both i and e can find their own happiness, live in harmony, and make progress together.
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