Generally speaking, couples always hurt each other, and a large part of the reason is that our marital EQ is too low.
Couples with low emotional intelligence are not good at communicating, not good at understanding each other’s emotions, and not good at resolving minor conflicts in a timely manner, which leads to a greatly reduced happiness in marriage.
In a marriage with high emotional intelligence, both husband and wife can often respect and understand each other, accept and tolerate each other’s shortcomings, thereby making the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious and happy.
The way to make a happy marriage is surprisingly simple. Happy married couples do not need to be smarter, richer, or psychologically healthier than other couples. They need to find a motivation in daily life that can make them happy. Your positive thoughts and emotions about each other are not overwhelmed by negative thoughts and emotions (obviously, this is something every couple has). This is what we often call marital emotional intelligence, that is, the ability of couples to coordinate with each other and tolerate each other. It determines the quality of married life to a certain extent.
In recent years, for children, emotional intelligence has been recognized as an important predictor of their future success in life. Regardless of their IQ, the higher the emotional intelligence, the better they will know how to get along with others, and the better they will be in the future. bright.
The same is true in a couple’s relationship. The higher a couple’s marital emotional intelligence is, the more they understand, appreciate, and respect each other, themselves, and their marriage, and the more likely they are to live happily ever after.
Just as parents need to train their children’s emotional intelligence, marital emotional intelligence is also a skill that couples need to learn.
Now, what you need most is to understand your marital EQ and know what level your marital EQ is. Start this psychological test!
