As we all know, everyone should know that everyone has their own strengths and advantages, but some people are good at expressing themselves, some people are not good at expressing themselves, some people like to highlight themselves, and some people like to hide themselves, so what are the self-expressions? Woolen cloth?
At work, you must always be strict with yourself, complete every task assigned by the leader in a conscientious and timely manner, resolutely obey the leader’s instructions, learn from your colleagues humbly, and constantly improve the deficiencies in your work. Ability to quickly adapt to new environments, learn new knowledge, and master new skills. Maintain a good team spirit at work, be able to coordinate and communicate well, cooperate with colleagues in the department to implement and complete various tasks of the company, and enthusiastically help other colleagues and live in harmony with colleagues. Be able to feel and appreciate the beauty in life, nature, art and science, and have a healthy aesthetic taste.
Self-expression: In terms of ideological cultivation, have good moral cultivation, have a firm political direction, and be willing to help others; actively participate in social practice activities and increase social experience.
Self-expression motivation refers to an individual’s desire to display his/her image in front of others. In daily life, most people pay attention to their words and deeds in order to obtain positive comments from others. From another perspective, one person’s reaction to another person is also based on his impression of the other person’s personality, abilities, motivations and other characteristics.
Being too self-centered often stems from a sense of self-preservation arising from frustrations in relationships, especially frustrations with parents in childhood. It may be that the parents have been unable to respond to their reasonable needs in a timely manner and cannot understand their reasonable appeals for a long time, and they feel frustrated. It may also be that the processes of weaning, separate beds, and going to kindergarten are relatively simple and rough, and they feel frustrated. If you don’t sort it out carefully, you may not even remember it. After sorting it out, you will find that self is a state of mind formed based on true love for yourself. Its essence is to love yourself. We don’t need to deny it, but we must accept and recognize it. It, because as long as it is true love, no matter who you love, it will always be worthy of recognition.
The prerequisite for changing yourself is to accept yourself, especially the so-called ‘most imperfect’ part of yourself, and firmly believe that there is only a unique self, no good or bad self, no beauty or ugly self, and then you can talk about how to change yourself.
So no matter how selfish you are, please accept yourself without any conditions and accept yourself completely (note that it is not downward indulgence and indulgence, nor upward pride and worship, but equal acceptance and understanding), calm Live in your own truth. The main way to change is to continue to ignore the narcissistic dimension, that is, don’t pay too much attention to ‘Is the world what I want?’ Get up, it’s really important.
There are degrees of self-centeredness. At the highest stage, this person will think that he is the only saint and great man among the crowd, and others are fools. He is arrogant and narcissistic, and his words and deeds will completely ignore the feelings of others, and will be regarded by others as a different kind of person. When such a person realizes that others are human beings just like him, and also have wisdom and thoughts, he takes the first step to overcome self-centeredness.
At a slightly lower level, this person assumes that what he thinks is right, and any thoughts that are different from his own are wrong. Therefore, such a person will neither face up to his own mistakes nor humbly learn from others when studying and working, so it will be difficult for him to make progress and there will be a ceiling in his academic career. When he realizes that his ideas are wrong, dares to face his own ignorance, and accepts his own weakness, he takes the second step to overcome self-centeredness.
To a lesser extent, he is a person who only cares about maximizing his own convenience in life and does not care whether it hinders others. He will be disliked and indifferent by others. When he is willing to consider others on the basis of sacrificing part of his own convenience, he has taken the third step to overcome self-centeredness.
Self-centered people will naturally like to look down on others based on their own strengths. However, according to the projection effect of psychology, he will think that others look down on him, so he feels lonely.
When he learns to appreciate the strengths of others, be optimistic about others, and seriously reflect on his own shortcomings; at this time, he has overcome part of his own ego.
Self-centered people may not realize their own self at all, but feel that they are thinking of others. why? Because he regards ‘imposing his own ideas on others’ as ’thinking for others’, this awareness is deeply rooted in his subconscious, but he cannot feel it at all. When he can realize this and fight against his subconscious mind, he will cause less trouble to others.
A self-centered person will think that the purpose of caring for others is to make his own life more comfortable. He will not care and sympathize with others, so he has no sense of integration, loyalty, and responsibility in the group. He thinks that he lives only for himself. When he can feel the warmth of integrating into the group and is willing to take responsibility for others, he will completely evolve into a person who overcomes himself. While integrating into the group, he uses his own wisdom to face complex human hearts and coordinate interpersonal relationships.
To test whether you can express yourself appropriately, use the following 20 questions to understand your self-expression.
