The reason why many women use hard-to-get and try hard is because they can understand the psychology of their boyfriends. At least they know when their boyfriends miss them the most. When you see your lover still shy and his bright eyes wandering around, does your heart feel agitated? Or is it because of a soft whisper or murmur in the ear that makes people’s hearts flutter? There are different kinds of people, and their attitudes towards and expecting sexual cues are also different.
Recently, ‘Life Times’ launched a survey on ‘What kind of sexual suggestion is the most effective’ and found that more than 61% of people are used to ‘getting to the point’, but as many as 82.84% hope that their partners can ‘suggest themselves’ through various methods.
Yang Dazhong, a physician at the Department of Sexual Medicine at Tsinghua University Yuquan Hospital, said that this survey truly reflects a contradiction among people during sex. “Although everyone hopes to change and innovate during sex, not many people really put their effort into doing so. ” Males accounted for 59.45% of the participants in this survey. When asked ‘Which of the following ways would you use to indicate that you want to have sex?’ 14.57% of people would say ’take a shower early and go to bed’; 10.26% would ‘act like a baby and call the other person dear’; 5.30 % of people will call nicknames that only each other knows; 4.30% of people choose to tell jokes with their partners; 3.31% of people will use ‘dancing, playing games, etc. to arouse their partner’s desire.’
In addition, as many as 45.70% of people ‘don’t speak, just kiss or caress their partner’, and 16.56% of people do nothing and wait for ‘it starts naturally after going to bed.’ A number of European and American studies have found that when two people communicate face-to-face, 70% of information is transmitted through non-verbal channels. This is particularly obvious in sexual life.
Because of the warmth and delicacy in women’s nature, as well as the shyness that attracts many men, they show a kind of implicit and hazy beauty in their sexual life. Therefore, a too straightforward and straightforward approach to courtship will frighten them and even cause them to feel repelled.
In addition, the courtship method that goes straight to the topic without any elaboration will make even a vigorous man easily get bored after a long time. A survey of 80% of people who want change showed that as many as 82.84% of people hope that their ‘partners can give hints to them’, while only 7.92% said that it doesn’t matter. ‘It should be realized that different forms of sexual suggestion have a positive effect. It can create a good sexual atmosphere, make love start in a fresher way, and change the embarrassment of ’left hand touching right hand’.
‘The survey also shows that many couples have this wonderful sex, but few people actually practice it.’ Yang Dazhong said. To a certain extent, sex is also an art where practice makes perfect. Couples who are well aware of their partner’s sexual responses are more likely to find satisfaction in sex. However, the paradox is that unchanging sex can easily make people feel boring and dispensable.
‘Just like in the survey, so many people chose ’not talking, just kissing or caressing their partner’ as a prelude to sexual intercourse, because they understand each other very well, and some simple physical expressions can make each other understand.’ Yang Dazhong Said: ‘If things go on like this, sex becomes a fixed process. Although it can always be started and continued, the quality is difficult to guarantee.’ Couples use language to express their sexual needs, but they often lack surprise and hazy beauty. Old couples often use ‘Take a shower and go to bed early today’ or ‘Are you tired today?’ to hint and preview tonight’s ‘program’. Some wives even arrange their married life on a fixed day each week, so all hints become like reminders.
Two people have come a long way on the road to ‘sexual happiness’, so do you know your lover’s needs signals?
When he or she hints to you, can you feel it sensitively?
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