During the Republic of China, Li Zongwu attracted widespread attention with his book 'Houheixue'. He expounded the view that one should have a thick skin but not a color, and a dark but colorless heart, in order to become a hero. This article will take Liu Bang, Xiang Yu, Cao Cao, Liu Bei, Sun Quan, Sima Yi and other figures as examples to discuss how thickness and blackness affect success or fail...
Relationships are an integral part of our lives, affecting our emotions, growth, and happiness. However, interpersonal communication is not an easy thing. It requires us to master some basic principles and skills in order to avoid unnecessary trouble and conflicts. In this article, I will share with you 20 rules of interpersonal relationships, hoping to help you improve your interpersonal skills a...
Young people, how are you? I am an old man who is over thirty years old. Today I want to share with you some experiences and lessons I have learned in life, hoping to be helpful and inspiring to you.
I know you may think that I am an old antique and do not understand your world and ideas, but please believe me, I was once a young man just like you. I once had dreams and enthusiasm, and I also mad...
MBTI is a psychology-based personality classification method that divides people's personalities into 16 different types, each with its own characteristics and advantages. Do you know your MBTI type? Do you want to know how different MBTI types will behave in college life? Today we will take a look at the popular 'MBTI College Student Illustrated Book' to see if you and your classmates, friends, a...
What is the label effect?
The label effect means that when a person is given a certain word name, he will form an impression of himself and adjust his behavior based on this impression to make it consistent with the given name. This phenomenon is due to the psychological and behavioral changes that occur after being given a name, so it is called the labeling effect.
Psychological research on lab...
ISTJ——Civil servant personality: Rigorous and pragmatic executor
The ISTJ personality represents seriousness, quietness, and success through concentration and dedication, as well as a reliable attitude. They handle affairs in a pragmatic, orderly, practical, logical, authentic and trustworthy manner. Whether it is work, family or life, ISTJ-type personalities can always show good organizational s...
Family is the cradle of our growth and our closest interpersonal relationship. However, families are not always harmonious and happy, and sometimes there are conflicts, contradictions, disappointments and other emotions. How do we maintain our selves and intimacy within our families, taking care of our own needs while maintaining the bond between our families?
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Why are you affected by your fami...
Anxiety is a normal emotional response that we all feel when we are faced with stress, danger, or difficulty. However, if anxiety is excessive, persistent, or unreasonable, it may affect our quality of life and health. At this time, we may suffer from anxiety disorders.
Anxiety disorder is a mental illness that comes in many different types and manifestations. According to statistics in the Unite...
Importance of goals
In the process of growing up in life, it is very important to set a goal for yourself. Goals can help us see clearly the vision we want to achieve, inspire our motivation and drive, guide us to take effective actions, and promote our self-improvement and realization.
In psychology, there is a model called Position-Link-Change-Outcome that helps us understand the role of goals...
The postgraduate entrance examination re-examination is the last hurdle on the road to the postgraduate entrance examination, and it is also the most challenging link. In addition to professional courses, English and comprehensive tests, there is another part that is easily overlooked, and that is the psychological test.
Psychological testing is an important part of examining the psychological qu...