You are the ISTP in the MBTI personality type , that is, the type of person who is called 'practical'. You have strong hands-on ability, clear logic, and can deal with emergencies quickly and calmly. Change the light bulb and repair the rice cooker. Others are still looking for tutorials, but you have already done it. But in the workplace or social circles, you may often be labeled as 'silent', 'unsociable' and 'not understanding the world'. Although you are not inferior to others, you always feel that your presence is low and your contribution is ignored.
In fact, you don’t need to deliberately cater to the extroverted style, nor do you have to force yourself to have a 'high emotional intelligence'. As long as you show off your strength at the right time and add a little social skills, you can definitely win more respect and recognition.
10 practical tips for ISTP to win respect
1. Expressing respect does not mean compromise
You may think that 'ability is the most important', but many elders or superiors value 'attitude'. When faced with repeated tasks, don’t just say it coldly, but instead: “I have tried to optimize this part before, and the efficiency can be improved a lot. Do you want me to adjust the process?” While showing professional judgment, it also gives the other side.
2. Skills are revealed, don’t be a “head-type expert”
You love practical technology and like to study independently, but don't always let the results lie on your computer. Next time you learn new skills, don’t forget to post an experience summary on your Moments: “Spend two nights to get time-lapse photography and recommend 3 key parameters.” It not only demonstrates your professional ability, but also helps build influence.
When communicating with colleagues, don’t just say “Baidu”, but add it: “I stepped on a pitfall at that time, and this note should help you.” Small details like this can win more trust and respect.
3. Don’t be an “invisible repairman” in the family
You silently help your home deal with network problems and water and electricity repairs, but you are always ignored. After completing these tasks, say: 'I just changed the firmware of the router, and the network speed is more stable after that.' Let your family know that you have spent time and energy and don't take everything for granted.
According to data from PsycTest Quiz official website (psychtest.cn) data, ISTP-type personality is often the 'technical core in the family', but because of less expression and less exposure, it is easy to lose the perception and understanding of family members over time.
4. Don’t be a “lone man” at work
You like to do everything by yourself, but teamwork is also the key to winning recognition. Next time you take on a project, you will take the initiative to say, 'I will be responsible for the implementation of technology, and you will help me sort out user needs.' It can not only show your execution ability, but also bring you closer to the team.
Don’t just send codes when delivering the results. By the way, you will attach a sentence: 'This time I tried a new caching mechanism, and the page responded a lot faster.' Let the leader see the innovative thinking behind you.
5. Self-discipline does not mean 'resisting everything'
You can stay up late to debug the program, but you will be unable to get up in the morning. Instead of enduring silently, it is better to actively communicate: 'I am efficient in the morning. Can I arrange the report before 10 o'clock?' In exchange for efficiency for flexibility, it can win the understanding and trust of managers.
You don’t like to participate in team activities, and you don’t have to be embarrassed and avoid them. You can say frankly: 'I will sort out the report first, and I will explain the plan when you come back.' Honest and efficient, and can establish a professional image better than barely participating.
6. Add some buffering to the blunt
You speak straight and don’t go in a corner, but sometimes it can lead to misunderstandings when you are too direct. When you meet a person who is in the line-breaker, don’t just say “Don’t go to the line”. You can change it to: “Sorry, I’ve been waiting for a long time. Are you in a hurry?” Relieve the confrontational sentiment and keep your principles.
When a friend borrows money but fails to repay it, you can also say, 'I have to register for the class and pay the fee. Can I pay the loan first?' It is easier to accept than 'Did you forget to pay it back.'
7. Don't let low-key cover up your strength
You solved the core technical problems, but said in the report, 'It's nothing, it's just that the team is lucky.' This will blur the real contribution. Next time, remember to clearly state: 'My part of the technology is a key node, and the overall time has been saved by three days after the solution.' Showing ability does not mean seizing credit, but letting others know your true value.
8. Socialization starts from the point of interest
You may hate meaningless greetings, but it doesn't mean you can't have in-depth conversations. Next time at the party, you might as well lock in a point you are interested in: 'I have also studied the model you mentioned. How did you adjust it?' It will be more natural to use content instead of superficial topics.
A small gift to friends, don't have to be fancy. A 3D printed keychain you made by yourself can actually become the highlight for others to remember you.
9. Don’t always rely on “self-study and work behind closed doors” to grow
You like to explore alone, but sometimes you have to rely on external feedback. You can join the skill exchange group and share your learning progress every week: 'I have finished practicing 3D modeling this week. Do you have any good plug-ins for seniors?' Interaction can bring practical suggestions and improve your social circle.
Shooting short videos to record your skills learning process, such as '30-day challenge to homemade woodworking tables', which not only motivates yourself, but also allows others to see your continuous action.
10. When doing charity, you must also 'expose your value' appropriately
You silently repaired the cat cage for the rescue station and debugged fitness equipment for the community, but no one knew. At this time, take a photo and post it: 'I repaired the cat cage today, and they have fun!' It will allow more people to feel your warmth and value.
After the community charity is over, you might as well post a sentence in the group: 'Our fitness equipment is ready, everyone can try it when you have time!' Let everyone know your participation and contribution.
The key method for ISTP to win respect
The biggest advantages of ISTP are: reliable, practical, quiet and efficient. But if you always 'do more and say less', it is easy to be ignored over time.
Winning respect is not about forcing yourself to become a social expert, but about:
- Dare to express when it’s time to speak;
- Be willing to share when you have achievements;
- Make a moderate appearance when making contributions;
- Stay calm, sincere, and feel boundaries in your interpersonal relationships.
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You already have the hard ability to 'solve problems', and now you only need to add the soft skills of 'let others see you', and respect and opportunities will naturally follow.
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