How to identify a soul mate? 40 simple criteria will tell you the answer

‘You appeared in front of me, and I remembered your appearance. This city is a paradise for lovers, and you are my soul mate.’

But, in this world, is there really such a person who is in harmony with your soul?

The answer is, of course!

From a psychological point of view, a ‘soul mate’ is actually the person who is highly compatible with you in all aspects such as emotional style, values, habits, tacit understanding, relationship model, etc.

To put it simply, you understand and appreciate each other.

When getting along, each other can always experience a feeling of ’telepathy’.

What does this feel like? What specific performances will it have?

Here are 40 specific manifestations of meeting your soul mate.

1. When you meet for the first time, you will have a natural goodwill and an inexplicable sense of familiarity. We haven’t met each other before, but we seem to have seen each other somewhere.

2. Before you meet your partner, you will always be ready to make a move; after being together, you will feel at ease from the inside out.

3. The establishment of the relationship is natural, rather than one party’s hard pursuit of the other.

4. We will not deliberately embarrass each other on certain things, nor will we set tests for each other to prove anything.

5. I always can’t help but compliment and praise my partner, even though the other person just did something very, very common.

6. Be very sure in your heart: your partner is special and excellent, even if he seems ordinary to outsiders.

7. Appearance is just about aesthetics. The longer you stay together, the more pleasing you become to each other.

8. Emotional intensity is not controlled by hormones. Even if they are an old couple, they are still in love.

9. You don’t need to explain many things because you will automatically look at the problem from your partner’s perspective.

10. We often chat for a long time about something, even to the point where we forget to go to bed.

11. Have at least one or more common hobbies, and be able to have in-depth conversations in this area.

12. You always have the same ideas. Even if you have different opinions, you don’t want to convince your partner. Instead, you will feel that the other person is very independent and becomes more attractive.

13. Will encourage the other half to do what they like, and will not control or deny the other half because of their own anxiety and selfishness.

14. He lives out what you want, you live out what he wants to be, and each of you is envious of the other’s life.

15. Because of the appearance of the other party, you will become more and more convinced of the four words ‘fate’.

16. I feel that there is a deep bond. Even if there is a conflict, I will not break up easily because I know subconsciously that I cannot be separated.

17. You can express your love to your partner without reservation and get a more enthusiastic response from the other person.

18. Ability to keenly capture the other person’s emotions, even if it’s just a look or an action.

19. Although they grew up in different environments and experienced different stories, their ways of thinking are surprisingly the same.

20. Coincidences often happen: For example, when you are about to send a message, you find that he is typing; appearing in a certain place at the same time; always saying the same sentence at the same time…

21. I am very obsessed with those seemingly imperfect points or even shortcomings in my partner.

22. They have roughly the same taste in music, art, literature and other arts, and they often like the same singer, painter, and writer.

23. They have basically the same taste in food and can always eat together.

24. Being with each other is as simple and natural as breathing, more casual than being alone.

25. You can share everything with your partner, from trivial matters in life to cosmic philosophy, and the other person will always catch your jokes.

26. It will give people the feeling that they have similar looks, but it is not the appearance of a husband and wife who have been together for many years, but a high degree of consistency in expressions and demeanor.

27. After watching the movie, I will discuss some thoughts with my partner. After watching the movie, both of them enjoyed it very much.

28. They are sexually harmonious and both are willing to please each other in this regard.

29. You can expose your weaknesses and vulnerabilities without any scruples. Your partner will never use them as a weapon to attack you.

30. The requirements for your partner will be divorced from worldly standards. Rather than ‘working hard to make money,’ you want your partner to live a happy and free life.

31. I will try many things I have never done before because of my partner’s suggestions, even though I was very resistant and resistant to them before.

32. Each other will change a lot in the relationship, but they will feel very happy because they are getting closer to their true selves.

33. When you feel very sad, only the other person can be close to you, and his comfort is more effective than anything else.

34. There are many jokes that only each other can understand. When outsiders mention them accidentally, the two of them will look at each other and smile.

35. When we do something together, we can always achieve the effect of 1 plus 1 being greater than 2, which stimulates more creativity.

36. When discussing issues, new ideas will always pop up, and you will be very surprised, because you have never thought of it this way before, and your thoughts and feelings will become more and more profound.

37. I will accompany you to ‘have your whims’, even if the content of the chat is very, very unrealistic.

38. If you cannot express a point clearly, even if you just say a few incoherent words, your partner can come up with a complete and clear explanation.

39. Our living habits are basically the same and we never quarrel over issues like ‘how to squeeze out toothpaste.’

40. Even if we live together, we will still dream about each other frequently. This kind of longing will not disappear because of the proximity.

An American writer said: ‘The feeling of meeting your soul mate is like walking into a house you have lived in before. You know the furniture, the paintings on the walls, the books on the shelves, and the things in the drawers. Even if In this house you are plunged into darkness and you can still walk around freely.”

This sense of security does not need to be proven or confirmed. Because you will have an innate sense of trust between you. Love and be loved as you are. I love you as you are.

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