interpersonal relationships — Blog Post

Have you ever experienced such a scene: chatting with your favorite person late at night, sharing all the secrets, but always being labeled as a 'good friend'? In psychology, this state of 'better friendship, less than the lover' is called the 'emotional friendship zone', and its essence is that 'personal expression misalignment' is at work - your way of showing goodwill may be misread by the othe...

Understand the characteristics, causes and harms of flattering personality. Test whether you have a pleasing personality and learn effective ways to get rid of the dilemma of 'pleasing others'. Learn to reject, establish boundaries, improve self-confidence, re-control your life, and live your true self. In life, do you always habitually suppress your own needs and prioritize others' feelings? Are ...

How to deal with people with counter-narcissistic personality disorder? It is often challenging to get along with people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Their behaviors are easy to manipulate others, lack empathy, and are sensitive to criticism. This article will introduce in detail how to protect yourself, respond effectively, and counter NPD people if necessary, and also provide re...

In the MBTI type sixteen personality, ISTJ is often referred to as a 'realist' or a 'responsible personality'. They are down-to-earth, rational, self-disciplined, low-key, and are not good at expressing love at a high-profile manner, but this does not mean that they lack emotions. On the contrary, it is people of this kind who often express their love and loyalty in actions rather than words. In t...

In the MBTI type sixteen personality, INFP (mediator) is a type of idealistic, emotionally delicate and extremely loyal person. They are good at listening, pursue connections at the soul level, and have extremely beautiful and romantic fantasies about love. In reality, INFP is often the one who 'the more you understand, the more you are.' Maybe you are secretly liking an INFP, or maybe you are the...

Have you ever had such a moment: you always think about contacting an old friend you haven't seen for a long time, but time goes by day, but never really takes that step? This kind of 'want to contact but not acted late' is particularly common for introverts. Although it seems to be just a simple chat, a phone call, or an invitation, there are often complex emotions and inner pulls behind it. And ...

In modern interpersonal psychology, positive social personality is considered to be a key factor affecting social success and interpersonal quality. Simply put, a positive social personality is the friendly, enthusiastic and positive side that a person shows in interpersonal interactions. Have you ever wondered why some people are always like fish in water in the crowd? This is often precisely bec...

In recent years, a new term has frequently appeared in social platforms and short videos: Sigma Male. Many people are curious: ' What is the sigma male? ' ' Are Sigma males honest? ' ' What is the difference between sigma males and alpha males? ' Behind these keywords is a popular male personality prototype classification system. In this article, we will deeply interpret the meaning, psychological...

A delicate balance between INFJ personality and “respect” In the theme of “winning respect”, there are often people who confuse the boundaries between “being liked” and “being respected”. This distinction is particularly important for INFJ personality (one of the MBTI sixteen personality, also known as the 'counselor' type). As one of the most idealistic and insightful types in the MBTI test, the ...

For introverted MBTI personality types such as INTJ, INFP, INFJ, ISFP, ISTJ, ISTP, etc. , 'How to make friends' is often a problem that is repeatedly knocked in the search box. Especially when we become adults, we have no fixed social circle, no classmates, and no job changes often. Making friends has become a kind of 'ability that requires deliberate practice.' If you are looking for ' How to mak...